Was it good for her? Did she reach orgasm? Will she be back for more? Whether it’s your first time or you’ve had sex countless times, every man asks themselves these questions. There’s no need to worry! When in doubt, just do this and you’re guaranteed to please her in bed.
There’s a lot of info about sex out there from different sources. It can sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming trying to decide what to try or not. In addition, it may make you feel like you’re doing something wrong and other people are the ones getting it right. Forget all that! The one thing you need to do to please her in bed is to remember that everyone is different and what works for others may not necessarily work for her. So take your time to explore all the things that make her tick sexually and you’ll be set.
Unlike men who are very visual, women are more mental. This means that sexual arousal starts in the mind first before the body gets there. It’s all about the process for women, and you need to start that as soon as possible. Send her flirty texts throughout the day about how you plan to please her in bed later. Flirt and talk dirty to her when you see her, and touch her often before the clothes even come off. She’ll love it, and will probably initiate sex!
It’s In the simple things, really! Cook for her, or order in if you prefer. You could also play a sex playlist softly in the background as you eat and flirt. Furthermore, light some candles around the house if she’s into that sort of thing. It’s good to maintain a sexy vibe all through, as well as make a little effort to show her you care.
Stop fumbling around during sex. If you really want to please her in bed, just ask her and be open to learning and correction. She knows what makes her feel good and what she doesn’t like during sex. You can also take note of her body language during foreplay and take note of the areas to focus more on for her pleasure.
Spice up your sex life by trying out different things to please her in bed. These can fulfilling her fantasies using sex toys. You can also use homemade blindfolds, ice cubes, edible paint…. As long as both of you are okay with it, the possibilities are limitless!
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